Kisah Cinta Tidak Indah : Studi Kekerasan dalam Relasi Pacaran Mahasiswa di Fakultas Ilmu Sosial dan Ilmu Politik Universitas Cenderawasih Jayapura

Abstract

Dating is a popular relationship among college students. In our expectation, dating becomes
popular because it is fun. However, in reality, dating is tend to be unpleasure relationship.
This can be occured because of violence. The existence of violence in dating has a strong
relation with the understanding of love. Love is often misunderstood by people who are
dating as a ownership and control. Therefore, the topic about how violence’s manifest in
dating relationships is important question. This research aims to look the relationship
between college students in Faculty of Social and Political Sciences (FISIP) of
Cenderawasih University, Jayapura, Papua. The results of this study are the concept of love
are important to building (consciously or unconsciously) violent acts in dating relation.
Then the culture and experience from both the victims and the perpretators are important to
perpetuating violence. Furthermore, the general form of violence at least exists in 5 forms
like psychological violence, physical violence, verbal violence, digital violence and financial
violence.