Sir, Mr Marks' correspondence1 and the inevitable social media storm that followed provide prime examples of the division and unhappiness that is rife within our profession. As with any aspect of life, there will exist groups straining against one another: who can shout the loudest, who can deliver the most cutting analysis, who can drown out the other with mountains of data, who has the worthier opinion, etc.

Let us set aside the rhetoric and remember that all 'sides' are human, and that we as a profession are better than this. Mutual dialogue and respect are key to facilitating improvements for all. Personal attacks, sweeping statements, and scoffing at colleagues serves no one, and drives a wedge deeper into an already wounded profession. Neither faction in this seemingly never-ending NHS vs private sector debate has covered themselves in glory.

Let us afford our colleagues, and ourselves, a greater kindness. In the immortal words of Bill and Ted, 'be excellent to each other'.