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Stigma and Forgiveness in Ghanaian Mothers of Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD)

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This study explored stigma experiences of mothers of children with ASD and forgiveness as their coping response. Semi-structured interviews were conducted with 6 mothers of children with ASD. Results of this study found several noteworthy themes including, feelings of mother, family/societal reactions, forgiveness factors, and impact of forgiveness. Mothers reported significant stigmatization from families and society. Some expressed their feelings towards themselves, others and God, and finally recounted the use of forgiveness as a coping resource which contributed significantly to their well-being. Findings from this study contribute to the emerging literature on forgiveness as a coping resource for persons who are offended. Implications for clinical practice, intervention and policy are discussed.

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  3. Department of Psychology, Methodist University College Ghana, Accra, Ghana

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Oti-Boadi, M., Dankyi, E. & Kwakye-Nuako, C.O. Stigma and Forgiveness in Ghanaian Mothers of Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD). J Autism Dev Disord 50, 1391–1400 (2020). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10803-020-04366-x

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