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Couple Coaching

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This chapter will present how REBT theory can enhance your understanding of couple problems and how Rational Emotive Behavior Coaching (REBC) offers very powerful practices for helping improve the relationship of couples experiencing difficulties.

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Reyes Mispireta, P., Bringas Putnam, R. (2018). Couple Coaching. In: Bernard, M., David, O. (eds) Coaching for Rational Living. Springer, Cham. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-3-319-74067-6_19

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