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Mother/Nature A Skeptical Look at the Unique Naturalness of Maternal Parenting

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“Is it more natural for mothers to parent than it is for fathers or anyone else?” Although this is an ill-defined question, in several respects, Rossi (1977) offers a sophisticated defense of the traditional affirmative answer to it. Rossi argues that not only is it more natural for mothers to parent than for fathers or anyone else, but it is also natural that mothers will be in certain respects better parents than anyone else. Rossi’s thesis is that mothers have natural, unique and superior parental abilities and responsibilities, especially toward their infants and very young children. Rossi phrases her thesis in terms of what her “biosocial perspective” suggests rather than what nature dictates, but her point is clear:

It is…likely that the emotional ties to the children are more important to the mothers than to the fathers….(T)he predisposition to respond to the child may be much greater on the part of the mother than the father….If a society wishes to create shared parental roles, it must either accept the high probability that the mother-infant relationship will continue to have greater emotional depth than the father-infant relationship, or institutionalize the means for providing men with compensatory exposure and training in infant and child care in order to close the gap provided by the physiological experience of pregnancy, birth, and nursing (Rossi, 1977, p. 18).

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Wilder, H.T. (1982). Mother/Nature A Skeptical Look at the Unique Naturalness of Maternal Parenting. In: Cafagna, A.C., Peterson, R.T., Staudenbaur, C.A. (eds) Philosophy, Children, and the Family. Child Nurturance, vol 1. Springer, Boston, MA. https://doi.org/10.1007/978-1-4613-3473-6_10

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