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Parental Divorce, Relationships with Fathers and Mothers, and Children’s Romantic Relationships in Young Adulthood

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The current study examined parent–child relationships during adolescence as a moderator between earlier parental divorce and children’s romantic relationships in emerging adulthood. In addition, the study examined the potential different outcomes in children’s romantic relationships according to the gender of parents and children as well as to fathers’ different residence types. The data for this study came from a 22-year 9-wave investigated longitudinal study, Michigan Study of Life Transitions (MSALT), which began in 1983. The sample for the current study was 520 (female = 311 and male = 209) from ‘always-married’ and 154 (female = 107 and male = 47) from ‘divorced’ families. Some of main findings are that residential father–child relationships during adolescence were more critical for children’s satisfaction in their romantic relationships in emerging adulthood than non-residential divorced father–child relationships, and that relationships with fathers during adolescence mattered for daughters’ satisfaction in their romantic relationships in emerging adulthood, but not for the sons’ satisfaction. Possible explanations of the findings, limitations, and strengths in the current study are discussed, and future research directions are addressed.

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Lee, SA. Parental Divorce, Relationships with Fathers and Mothers, and Children’s Romantic Relationships in Young Adulthood. J Adult Dev 25, 121–134 (2018). https://doi.org/10.1007/s10804-017-9279-4

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